It has always been my dream to get married young. Not being miang or mentel like what people think it is. Its just that I am prepared and I want to have a family of my own. 
Some will say that they want to work or further study first and marriage comes later. All think of success before religion. All they want is to earn money to support their parents but they forgot/didnt know that as long as you're not married, you're still under your parents' responsibility, which of course, I am referring to Muslims' belief and this post is mainly for the Muslims. 
As long as you're not married, your parents will bear your sins. So if you want to repay them, repay by free-ing them from their responsibilty toward you first. 
Of course, besides that you'll get "Pahala". It is ENCOURAGED by the Islam marry young so why shouldn't I heed it?
I have always wanted a big family of my own. Being raised up in a 4 member family is quite "lonely". I love to wake up in a noisy living room,  filled with laughters on weekends, the joyous moments during a special occasion.. I've always imagine myself being a mother to five kids. 
This is my life. From Allah, I came into this world, and to Him, I return. So I just want to please Him, not anyone else. Just because you're not ready to marry, just because you dont want to have kids or a lot kids, that's your problem. You don't approach me and tell me I should work and be successful first before thinking about marriage. If I can handle it, why not? 
Despite my current situation now, I am still trying my best to figure out ways in order to succeed in my plan. I don't know whether I should further study or just find a full time job and get married.  It seems like furthering study would have been the best option if only money would just fall from the sky. If I were to study, I can't save enough which hence, will prolong my plan. And everything after that will just not fall into place. 
So many things in my future plan, so little time.... And no money. Surely, I gotta have to agree that for this, money sure does brings happiness. 
              
             ♥ Monday, August 20, 2012