Sometimes, if you're lucky, you just soar through and reach your destination without any disruptions, without any red lights. But sometimes, there's so many red lights that you have to stop and wait and you end up having to take the long way just to reach to your destination.
Sometimes, you got everything all planned out. Yet, to achieve it takes a lot more of effort than it seems. People say, good things take times. They also say, nothing is easy. But nobody warns me that along the way, you're gonna lose some people, you're gonna be hated, you're gonna have to please people's life in order to get where you want to be.
Sometimes, the place that you thought is good for you, may not be the place that you're meant to end up at all. You thought that you're good enough to take up the responsibility, you thought that you can please anyone just by doing a good job. But no, nobody warns me that no matter how good you are, how much effort you put in, if people can't accept you, you can't do anything.
Sometimes, no matter how much you want to stay, no matter how much you like what you're doing, you just have to let it go. Yourself matters, your feelings matters. If you keep getting upset and feel that you're never good enough, it's time for you to leave.
People gonna hate you for no reason. People gonna judge you anywhere, everywhere. People gonna make you happy or regret. But there's one thing I'd learn from my mistake; you can't please everyone.
Like how Dave Pelzer put it, "
When you please others in hopes of being accepted, you lose your self-worth in the process."
